My spouse and i are always bored with each other..???

Are you guys actually "tired" of each other? Or, are you both just bored with your life together? They aren't the same thing, and require different fixes. uming you two still love each other, but your lives are in such deep ruts that neither of you can even see what's outside the ruts you are living in, then it's your lives that need changing or fixing, and not your marriage. So, try fixing your lives, and regain a sense of wonder, adventure, and fun. How? Only you two can find THAT answer. It may simply require that you two start DOING simple things together, like more dates, new interests, and or different friends. But, even if you two need to radically change everything, we live in a big world, and there are soooooooooo many different lives we can live. Go build a cabin up in Alaska, raise sled dogs, and pan gold on weekends. Or, sell everything, buy a sailboat, and spend a few years sailing the world. Start a business- heck, everybody has ideas, so you and your spouse just need to decide WHAT. Start a canine brothel, for pampered pooches. Found a charity. Heck, become traveling carnival workers. You'll be dead of old age long before you even manage to list all the different ways you two can live. Don't let boredom with your lives get confused with being out of love with your partner. And YES, I do understand that since you aren't rich, or childless, you can't just "do" different things. But, actually, you CAN. Idiots do "things" all the time that other people "can't" do- because they just "DO" them. So, get off your s, and "DO" something.