Mother in law and mamas boy of a husband problems.Need advice.Now would be great?

I am in a big or deal. My mother n law had told me that she was heading over in a text.I texted her back no not a good time.I had plans with my sis and my husband has been having crazy work shift hours he needed his rest.He gets kookoo with out it.Anywho She came over anyway.I had a messy bedroom other than that the house was clean,I was hopping in the shower as she came to stop by.She came in my bedroom.I yelled out the door to my husband , " will you take your mom into our living room our bedroom is a mess, have respect". He got pissed beat the door in fron of her.He then called me a *****. He then told her I was the devil.After that he banged open the bathroom door while me being naked and persist to tell me to come the **** out and talk and visit with his mom.He slammed the door open again.I was hidding behindthe door at this time and told him not to treat me like that in front of his mother or I will not.He opened the door again and tried pulling me out at this time.She set there and enjoyed.Which of course I didnt.I stayed in that bathroom until she left.She stayed for a few and I over heard her telling him ," you got to sit her down and get her straight". She left.I came out of the restroom and he yelled at me.He was persistant on thinking it was ok to treat me like this.It;s never ok to do that! anywho ... I cried and cried.Pleaded for him to understand me.Then I get a weird text from her saying,'' my son is just like me wont stand for your bulshit".Then another saying "He wont stand to be walked all over".Than four saying donnt skrew with me. My husband left me in tears.He went to work. I dont know whart to say to hear if she writes me again? Was I wrong? I feel so bothered by her all of the time.She always is manipulative.She tells me off then leaves me messages saying Hi daughter friend. I do not know what to do. My husband denied me his family.He said I was not. He left the house with me in tears.He told me he called her and told her that message was wrong yet I know he didnt and hes lying, I just know.